At the golds gym i work at, in free weight db area, they have all of the benches bolted to ground, etc. also you can chunk dbs if you want. no one cares. i threw a 65 on accident directly at the rack whole thing shook,.. i was aiming for the floor.
bro I sent you a message back. Go to world's gym. Its not far at all from you and is reasonably priced. Noah Steere works out there. If you get a chance check out Steere's Nutrition on Yadkin Rd. That guy is friggin huge and is a lot of fun to talk to.