I guarentee you if people werent so ignorant about bodybuilding, there would be a hell of a lot more bodybuilders and more people in shape and a lot more healthy people in the world. Although bodybuilding isnt that healthy, its healthier than being a lazy fatass. A lot of people arent as healthy and/or fit as they can be but they wont lift weights because they think they will build too much muscle.
Love the people around you but have patience in their ignorance. You are the bigger man, mentally and physically.